Paul Verbnyak. How to disclose their potential and achieve more in life

Learn to concentrate. This is the basis of perfect consciousness. Find out what you enjoy doing,
and give all their strength to this task. Focus on serving the cause of devotion, more significant than yourselves. You'll wake up full of energy and enthusiasm will be a deep sense of inner peace.
Train your brain every day. It is like any other muscle. If it is not train, you will start to think negative categories. The quality of your life will depend on the quality of your thoughts. Your thoughts form your world. Brain - the most powerful filter. If you focus on the main purpose of your brain will begin to filter out all the unimportant and will concentrate on the essentials.
Playing chess well coached and activates the brain. In the words of Goethe: "Chess - a touchstone for the mind." Chess bring wisdom, justice, honesty. Learning to play
chess at an early age is useful to everyone, they form a strong, strong-willed, creative nature, develop imagination, creativity, logical thinking. However, chess - a means of character education, introduction to the great human culture. Introduction to chess allows children and adults to develop their imagination, strengthen and exercise your memory, to get independent, independent thinking and decision-making skills. Chess great discipline and commitment and the ability to generate accurate calculation of the time. Chess brings amazing aesthetic pleasure in nurturing human qualities such as kindness, trust, endurance, and instill respect for the opponent.
Small victories will lead you to greater achievements. It is to start small, to achieve great things. The secret is to raise the bar higher and higher, and constantly improve. Your small victories will inspire you on next steps.
Listen to your heart. Let it guide you through life. Be
maybe it will tell you what your vocation is reduced to selfless service to others. No matter how much you have rooms in the house, in the garage, with the next world they will not take. Being born, we cry, and the world rejoices. Live so that dying, we were happy, and the world was crying. Live in the present. Not last, and not in the future.
Integrate all the knowledge and combine them into one. Use knowledge. Knowledge only want to use them. If you want to make a breakthrough, you have to break tradition and abandon the old thinking.
Work, hard, on the development of his character. Do not forget that there are laws of success
and happy life. These laws can not violate. Learn them and follow them.
Do not be afraid to admit your own ignorance. This is the first step to improvement. If you want good relationships, learn to listen. Listen - it means to be patient, open, have a desire to understand. This property is highly developed man.
Your public victory will be possible only after a personal victory. Please change yourself, then start to improve relationships with others. Always consult with your subordinates as you want them to treat customers.
Your life will become better only when you yourself feel better. If you want to have a better wife, be a better husband. If you want to have the best children, performed better parent if you want to have the best employees, become the best boss. If you want to change your life in every aspect, start with yourself. Your life will be better only if you yourself will improve.
You are able to learn everything you need to achieve your goals. You can become a better leader, manager, engineer, technician, parents, spouses. You are able to learn foreign languages and to master any other skills. Just learn anything that will bring you closer to the goal.
Your self-development - is thin and delicate process. There is no better investment of their forces than an investment in yourself.
Relationships with others
In everything, do to you there were people,
so do you also to them.
Matt. 7:12
Always remember the main principle: the quality of your life - it's the quality of your communication. Your interaction with others and, more importantly, your self-communication vital priority in the value system. You get what you concentrate on anything. If you are looking for positive emotions, you get them. it
the fundamental law of nature.
Avoid those who deny. Protect themselves from those who warns you that you will fail or lose your time or money.
Associate yourself with positive people - men and women who are optimistic and ambitious. Refuse to listen to objections and the reasons why you will not succeed. Live and work only with people that inspire you and want you to succeed. Understand the people you choose their environment can have a big impact on your life than any other factor.
Contact only with positive, focused people who you can learn
and that will not deplete your energy complaining and a bad mood. Developing relationships
with those who are engaged in constant improvement and strives to achieve the best in life, you will find a lot of travel.
"Contagious" not only losers with their failures, and successful people. Therefore, to be successful and happy person, it is necessary to communicate with the optimists and avoid the losers. For the past already drowned his ship dreams, so they get real pleasure in helping you to go to the bottom once again to prove that life - is a failure. But lucky, successful people prove to everyone around that they are happy and others infect your sense of happiness and radiant optimism. As the saying goes, tell me who your friends are and I'll tell you who you are.
By the way, Robin Sharma mentioned that the level of our income and well-being will always be a value relative to the average income of our five closest friends. When you take from the environment detractors, negative phenomena will disappear from your life.
Build relationships with other people. Focus on helping others achieve their goals more anxious about selfless service than on remuneration. You came into this world to make it richer; forgetting this truth, you betray yourself.
Goodbye friends weakness. If you are looking for shortcomings, you are sure to find them. Be mature enough: do not pay attention to the minor shortcomings of others and are looking for something that is good in every person initially. Any person can learn a lot: an interesting story, a good joke or a life lesson. Ralph Waldo Emerson said: "Every person I meet, in a suit against the superior to me, and in this sense I can learn from him."
Follow this example and you learn a lot. Friends are very important for a happy life, especially those who were with you in joy and in sorrow. Have worked hard to make friendships, and in general all the relationships stronger and richer. Call your friends, make them gifts that give pleasure. "Farm Act" applies to interpersonal relations
and to the rest of life - you harvest only from the field to sow, and to have good friends, it is necessary first of all to be a true friend.
No one can hurt or insult you without your permission. One of the keys to happiness and uspehu- is your interpretation of events unfolding before you. People who have achieved great success, are masters of interpretation. People who have achieved greatness, to develop their ability to interpret negative events as a positive challenge, which helps them grow and move up the ladder of success. No negative experience, there is only experience that helps you develop and strengthen your character, so you can climb to new heights. There are no failures, only lessons we derive from them.
Remember the names of the people around you, and good to everyone. This habit, as well as the enthusiasm of the - one of the most important secrets of success. Everything in this world want to feel its importance and understand that they are valued. The sound of his own name - a very nice music for the person. This beautifully writes psychologist Dale Carnegie.
Napoleon III had the ability to memorize the names of all the people he met. His secret lay in the fact that when they met, he always said, "Sorry, I forgot your name." Thus, the name was repeated many times and delayed memory. If the name was difficult, he asked how to spell it.
Remember that the ability to forgive - is a virtue, this little, but it is very important to maintain peace of mind. Mark Twain wrote that forgiveness - is the fragrance that the violet gives the shoe stepping on it. Practice forgiveness in situations where it seems particularly difficult. If you regularly use the technique of emotional forgiveness, petty grievances and comments will not touch you, and nothing will disturb your peace of mind.
Regularly sends handwritten notes to your customers and business partners to strengthen contacts. Develop a system that would remind you of the need to make gifts to these people at least once in 4 months. Please send them a postcard when you're on vacation. If you have to buy a few hundred cards and spend an hour signing them, do not worry. This is an extremely effective investment of time. Another idea - send a new interesting article to your partners together with a note, written by hand, in which it is said that you think this article is of interest and that you still value their friendship. Building a good relationship should always be the center of attention, whether you are CEO of a student, the seller or the parent.
Send postcards to birthday and wrote little notes, which show that you care and are thinking of their loved ones. We are all very busy, but if you spend just 5 minutes per week to send postcards to friends or family members, you will see that it will come back to you a hundredfold.
When choosing a partner for life, remember that this is the most important decision. Marriage gives you a 90% support, happiness and success, so the approach to choosing a partner wisely. Look for qualities such as affection, sense of humor, intelligence, integrity, maturity, temperament, compatibility, and the feeling of "chemistry", which is so hard to describe. If these features are present, your marriage can be very successful. Do not rush and do not let anyone influence your decision.
Trust your partner. This will strengthen your relationship and allow you to
both grow at the same pace. It is also very useful to share important life circumstances with my boyfriend. Become the mainstay of your spouse, always support its hopes and dreams. Develop together and move confidently through life.
Creating a solid foundation in the relationship with your spouse, children, relatives or friends, as well as maintaining a healthy, happy relationship will improve your quality of life and give it a new meaning.
Remember the names of three people who can give you the inspiration to provide motivation and support. Plan a meeting with each of them
in the next few weeks. Listen carefully and meditate with them. Map out a strategy and listen to their wise advice.
Select five people with whom you would like to improve relations within six months. Write down the names of these people, and under the name of each note in detail why you want to improve how you plan to do it and for how long. This is just another aspect of goal setting, which always gives great results. Take on the challenge to become a better parent, a better friend and a better citizen. Be creative to the steps that you take to express your appreciation
and with respect to your loved ones. To send the note - it is very good, but think of something more unusual, such as a picnic with a business partner or a fishing trip with an old friend.
Meet and make friends with the neighbors. They will help to diversify your life and are able to assist in the most unexpected situations.
Do not interrupt others. One of the most frequently encountered rudeness - this interrupt the speaker. Listen to the stress, with full attention. You can not imagine how much you learn and how many people will start looking for your advice.
Learn to work in a team. Make new friends. You will be surprised how small courtesies will help you later in life. Treat each person encountered on your way, as the most important. You will be a great success.
Tie and strengthen new friendships, as these relations are necessary for a successful
and healthy life. Find a few minutes a day to write warm wishes to an old friend or make a phone call to someone with whom you have not talked. Empathy and genuine concern for all of your friends and watch the results that follow. Be a good friend. Make it a priority to find new friends, no matter how much they have ever been. This is one of the greatest joys in life that many are missing.
Concentrate on the other. Listen to others - and you will learn a lot of new and surprising, and have forged new friendships.
Teamwork
If people do not learn to help each other, then the human race will disappear from the face of the earth.
Walter Scott
You can learn everything you need to achieve any goal. You are able to master any skill and ability to become who you want to be. Theodore Roosevelt said that the key to success - to do whatever is possible terms the fact that there, where you are.
All that was different, and you will succeed. Objectives available the others available to you. Your possibilities are unlimited, if you take your future and now under strict control. If you do today, right now give the floor to put these principles into practice, offers such a stunning victory, which you do not even dare to dream. Nothing will stop you.
Do not be afraid to ask for help. This feature of people with character, strong and courageous.
And is willing to share with others. This is evidence of responsibility, compassion and strength of the human spirit. Great is not done alone.
The philosopher and psychologist Napoleon Hill wrote that if you combine your thoughts with the thoughts of other people, then your mind will generate such thoughts, which you have never been.
Find a mentor! Our educational system does not prepare us for the real world. So do not think that, after graduating from high school, you are ready for real life. This is hardly the case. You must continue to learn. The most successful people attend seminars and clubs, read books, join groups, find mentors, even hiring private managers paid to secure success.
Look for yourself such a mentor who already has achieved what you want. Look for yourself a mentor with whom you want to emulate and which will accompany you on the path of life.
Surround yourself with the teachers, books and associates. Create a group in which everyone would be charged another positive energy and help in difficult times. Think Tank is to encourage you to think and be active. Analyze the success of all the people that surround you. Much can be achieved only in the team.
The success is determined by your surroundings. His biggest dream can be realized only with the help of other people.
The main benefit of life
Health worth more than gold.